Your bio is a filter, not a resume. Lead with what you want (monogamy, slow pace, child-free, marriage-minded) so mismatches self-select out.

Keep early conversations on the app. Video call once before meeting. Always meet in a public place, tell a friend where you are, and arrange your own ride home.

If someone pushes for your address, financial help, or explicit photos early, that is the information. You are allowed to unmatch without debate.